Last night saw another landmark in the life of Toddler L. It may not be up there with the more ‘glamorous’ milestones such as crawling, walking or talking, but I think it’s significant nonetheless. As given away by the title of the post, yesterday I removed the sides from Toddler L’s cot bed. Dun dun dunnnn!
At a week over 2.5 years old, we’ve been toying with doing this for a while now. However, we’re very much of the ‘if it ain’t broken, don’t fix it’ mentality. As, on the whole, her sleep is pretty good – 8pm to 7am with a few wake ups for water – we didn’t want to make a change in case it had negative ramifications. The last thing we wanted was to remove the sides and find that life became as unbearable as it was during 4-months sleep regression.
Life with a kid goes so bloody fast. I can remember very clearly when she made the transition from the SnuzPod to her cot bed – in fact, this was one of the changes I wrote about when she was around the 6-month mark. That’s two years ago! Two!
Then, more recently, it feels just like yesterday when she went from sleep bag to actual, proper bedding. With the duvet and pillow set, plus the awesome gelato bedding set we were kindly sent from Mokee, it made me realise that she was becoming a little girl. I guess it’s the same kind of feeling Geppetto experienced when Pinocchio became a real boy. Despite the move to a pillow and duvet feeling like the other day, it was actually nearly five months ago now. Crazy.
However, let’s return to yesterday. As I
played FIFA worked downstairs as she slept, I heard a banging which I assumed was coming from next door. When it happened for a second – and then third – time, I went to investigate. On opening the bedroom door, I was startled to find Toddler L standing in the middle of the room with a self-congratulatory smile upon her face. She then proceeded to tell me about how she’d climbed over the side of the bed. The sneaky little blighter.
So, with that, the sides had to come off. Well, I say “sides”, but I’ve been lazy and only taken off one of the sides as the other is against the wall. As we bought a bed – the Samplings Kitty Cot Bed – which would grow with her, I *could* also lower the head and foot board, but I’m not in the habit of creating DIY jobs unless they’re definitely needed. I might wait until my dad next comes over so he can do it for me…
Toddler L seemed to be pretty chuffed with her ‘new’ big girl bed. With the sides off, she proceeded to get in and out unaided, bring cuddly toys in with her and pretend to sleep. However, the test would come later that night when she went to bed. Obviously the sides of the bed meant that she’s been trapped in so far – well, until she figured out that she could climb.
Without sides though, my fear was that she’d have free reign to do whatever she wanted when we put her to bed. I had visions of her taking clothes out of drawers, climbing into the wardrobe, playing with plug sockets, and generally everything she’s been constrained from previously doing.
The side is off Toddler L’s bed for the first time tonight. I’m taking bets on (a) how often she gets up and (b) how often she falls out.
— The DADventurer (@The_dadventurer) February 17, 2017
So how did the first night go? Very well! Despite not having a side, nothing changed. She went to bed as normal, stirred a few times as she needed a drink and then called us around 7am. Despite being able to ‘escape’, it appears that she chose not to. Result.
It was a similar story for her nap today. She went to bed – despite not wanting to – then woke 1.5 hours later. On going up to retrieve her, she’d got out of bed and was holding her teddies ready to bring them downstairs. I was pleasantly surprised and can only hope that there’ll be a repeat tonight.
At what age did the sides come down on your kid’s cot bed? Or did they go straight to a toddler bed? Did you have any issues with your little one getting up or falling out during the night? Let me know below!
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